
Thank you for the thoughtful discussion about the Thai smile last week. It seems that it has many functions, which explains why one sees it so often in this culture. It helps us to understand a little bit more about
why we are.This next unit is aimed to consider cultural difference and tolerance. This is the central issue of cross cultural communication. One person talking is not communication. In order for communication, another must be listening and participating. Therefore, one must extend a level of tolerance and open-mindedness to another, to give the Other the time and respect to express themselves and their world views. If communication is effective, then a new possibility for living together will emerge.
However, communication must start with myself: I am a man. I am healthy and able. I am not poor. I am white. I am heterosexual. I am educated.
I am lucky. I don't know why, but my culture has decided that all of my identities are either good, right, or powerful. I did not choose these identities. I was born into a good family and into a strong culture that has given me the gifts that I have in my life. These gifts are not my rights. They are the privileges that culture gives to me, and does not give to others.
Culture can be unfair and intolerant. Cultures often do not listen to the Other and continue to teach people what it believes to be good, right, or powerful, and the resulting arguments are usually over race, gender, politics, and religion.
Thai protesters wear red and yellow shirts and shout at each other, but no one listens. Unidentified men bomb hotel rooms in Mumbai, and no one talks. There are conflicts, big and small, happening everywhere and everyday, simply because of intolerance and miscommunication.
If we take off our red and yellow shirts, there will be no differences to argue about.
There is no specific question this week. I appreciate your thoughts and reflections. Happy Father's Day. Aj. M
"Our greatest strength as a human race is our ability to acknowledge our differences, our greatest weakness is our failure to embrace them." Judith Henderson